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I don’t know if I should continue this relationship with my bf of 3 years. He’s the one son of the family with 4 siblings. His parents are putting unnecessary burdens on him and demanding him to stay with them when they are old and senile. I am not against old people but their thoughts really give me a chill down the spine where his sisters didn’t have to take care of their parents when they are old. I have met his parents for once and they seems to be fine. I have no idea if it’s their true colours or what but the way my bf projecting it to me seems to be the opposite way. I really love him but I don’t want to be married into an old folks home or having to be the one dealing with his parents. I have my own parents too. When we discussed about this, we had a very varied discussion and opinions about living after marriage. I like to have our own little space but he preferred to stay at the family home with his parents. I’ve told my bff about it and they’re both against continuing our relationship since I don’t want to be his parents caretaker. How should I end this or is there a chance I can talk him out of this family burden?

~ June